This is a fun story I’d like to share with you. I think….you will like this. No names in this story.
Yesterday I visited a young couple on the Central Coast. He enjoys cooking and she doesn’t…to say the least. He thinks it would be good if she started to cook and enjoy it. In chatting with her..she just couldn’t see herself in the kitchen. “Hate it” were her words, body language very tense as well.
Then I started asking her what she absolutely enjoyed. Working out at the gym was her answer. More of my questions followed. I was listening for the words she used, her tonality and also observing her body language, use of hands as she spoke etc.
At this point I asked her again about cooking. Watching her eye movements I located in space where she was accessing those ideas – about 1.5m in front of her down to the right a bit. Now I asked her to describe her gym experiences. Again I looked for where this was located for her – about 2 m away, upabout 1.5m. What a difference in the eyes.
Then using a particular NLP technique which is sort of a cross between Rapid Belief Change and a Swish Pattern I moved the beliefs about cooking up to the place where “working out in the gym” is located. Then repeated a number of times until the change was embedded.
To check in with her I asked about cooking. She accessed “working out in the gym”. She seemed a little dazed and confused. This is a normal occurrence after changing neurological pathways. She could no longer access “feelings” or words that she previously used about cooking. Now when the word cooking was mentioned she “saw” a muffin tray, saw him smiling and she felt lighter (like when she trained in the gym).
What a change. Simple hypnosis and NLP (for those of us who have the training )
I’m checking in now and again to see how the belief change is expressed in action – kitchen action.
Ask me what ….. you are intrigued…about this….
Have a great weekend.